Welcome to one of the most exciting ( and nerve-racking ) parts of your parenting journey ! While the focus will be on getting your little one ready to start school , don ' t forget to prepare yourself as well for this transition

It ’ s completely normal to have mixed emotions about your child starting school . A survey of 1,000 parents revealed that 69 % felt anxious about it , with concerns ranging from their child making friends and drinking enough water , to misbehaviour and going to the toilet by themselves .

While starting school will be a big change for your family , it needn ’ t be a scary one . Your child will pick up on any anxieties you have , so your first task is to focus on being positive . Challenge any negative thoughts by asking yourself if they ’ re being helpful or unhelpful to you . Are your worries allowing you to prepare for this change , or are they just making you feel bad ?

It ’ s also normal to look forward to your child starting school ! Getting some precious time back to do other things may provide some relief .

There ’ s no right or wrong way to feel , just make sure you acknowledge those feelings so they don ’ t get in the way of enjoying this special time .

Even though your child is becoming more independent , you still play a key part in their school life

Do your homework

Researching your child ’ s school and learning about what to expect during their first few weeks will help to ease your concerns . Reading your Be School Ready guide is a great way to start !

Your imagination will also play an important part in feeling ‘ ready ’. Visualise a before and after-school routine and look at photos of the school and staff to imagine being part of this new environment .

Preparation , preparation , preparation

There is a lot to remember and get your head around , so start getting organised as soon as possible . Reminder apps , lists stuck to the fridge , whiteboards , family calendars – whatever works best for you .

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