Welcome to one of the most exciting( and nerve-racking) parts of your parenting journey! While the focus will be on getting your little one ready to start school, don ' t forget to prepare yourself as well for this transition

It’ s completely normal to have mixed emotions about your child starting school. A survey of 1,000 parents revealed that 69 % felt anxious about it, with concerns ranging from making friends and drinking enough water, to misbehaviour and going to the toilet by themselves.

While starting school will be a big change for your family, it needn’ t be a scary one. Your child will pick up on any anxieties you have, so your first task is to focus on being positive. Challenge any negative thoughts you have by asking yourself if they’ re being helpful or unhelpful to you. Are your worries helping you to prepare for this change, or are they just making you feel bad?

It’ s also normal to look forward to your child starting school! Getting some precious time back to do other things may give you some relief.

There’ s no right or wrong way to feel, just make sure you acknowledge those feelings so they don’ t get in the way of enjoying this special time.

Even though your child is becoming more independent, you still play a key part in their school life

Do your homework

Researching your child’ s school and learning about what to expect during their first few weeks will help to ease your concerns. Reading your Be School Ready guide is a great way to start!

Your imagination will also play an important part in feeling‘ ready’. Visualise a before and after-school routine and look at photos of the school and staff to imagine being part of this new environment.

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